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Many of us guys wonder what it takes to attract a woman.  Some of us think that we need to look good, or that we need to have a great sexual history.  Really though, when you’re talking to a woman for the first time, that is when she will make the choice to either: A) Talk to you again, or B) Reject your sorry little butt.  Of course, we want action A to happen, however, a lot of us are having action B happening.  So here’s a few hints on when you talk to women.  There will be a solution to every DO NOT in this post:

1. DO NOT call them hot or sexy.  They already hear a zillion guys tell them that a lot so what makes you stand out from them?
2. DO call them beautiful.  I’m serious, this really works great.  I tell women that they’re beautiful because it’s uncommon, and they love it when somebody does something they’re not used to like that.
3. DO NOT expect sex from women at first.  One thing a woman likes is not just a man that doesn’t call them hot or sexy, but a man that isn’t so frickin infatuated with sex.  You are most likely not good at picking up hints like I am, and don’t think they’re offering it to you unless it’s as obvious as a Atom Bomb.
4. DO make women feel secure.  One of the last things a woman wants/needs to worry about is knowing whether or not she can trust a man to not pressure her in to sex.  And they certainly don’t want somebody who they know is a sex addict that is constantly begging for it.  Just remember that when she’s ready, she’ll let you know.

Here are a few tips for those who are currently in a relationship:

1. DO NOT compare your girlfriend to ex-girlfriends.  This is one of the worst things I’ve ever done.  She will feel like you still miss her, and will probably think that you don’t love her as much as your ex.  Some girls like to know that they’re better than your ex, however, a lot of girls HATE hearing about ex’s, so don’t be surprised if they talk about theirs too.
2. DO tell her you love her (and mean it) at least once a day.  If they don’t wanna hear it much, they’ll let you know.  Don’t forget to make her feel like she is the most special/wonderful woman EVER, you will earn more brownie points and probably be rewarded greatly for it.
3. DO NOT check out her friends.  You are a dumbass if you do this, and if you get caught/in trouble for doing so.  Think about it, this woman thinks you love her, yet, you might want sex from her friends more than her?  Um, I hope she won’t dump you, because there are a lot of women out there that aren’t putting up with this kind of crap anymore.
4. DO let her know that you think she is the most beautiful woman in the world.  It’s ok to agree with her about a friend or two of hers, but NEVER be the first one to say “Gee, did you see how beautiful Amy was today?”  That will most likely lead to a consequence you don’t want.

Yes, I realize that a lot of these are just common sense, but you have no clue how important it is to have this knowledge.  I promise that I do all of the DO’s on this post, and that I wouldn’t post it if it never worked.

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